According to sources one of the straws that broke the camels back in Jennifer Aniston and John Mayers relationship was that though he spent hours on social networking sites, he often didn’t have time to phone, text or otherwise get in touch with Jennifer.

“Every few hours, sometimes minutes, he’d update with some stupid line. And in her mind, she was like ‘He has time for all this Twittering, but he can’t send me a text, an email, make a call?’.”

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As he copes with another split from Jennifer Aniston, John Mayer has turned to Twitter to express his thoughts.

“This heart didn’t come with instructions,” he posted on Monday.

Mayer’s heart has been all over the place during his time with Aniston, 40: They broke up two times in 13 months.

In August 2008, they first called it quits. At the time Mayer blabbed about the split to paparazzi outside his NYC gym, stressing that he was the one who broke things off.

“I ended a relationship to be alone because I don’t want to waste somebody’s time if something’s not right,” he said.

They got back together and even attended the Oscars together last month.

“You have to really be with someone that you know who has your back in that situation,” he said of attending the show with her.

Alas, they split a short time later.

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Jennifer Aniston and John Mayer may have called it quits.

A source says the pair’s on-again, off-again relationship may have ended sometime within the last week, when Aniston returned from her overseas Marley & Me junket.

“He broke up with her when she got back from her European tour,” the source said.

Aniston’s rep did not immediately comment. Mayer’s rep declined to comment on the singer’s personal life.

But what are their friends saying?

One pal warns that we shouldn’t be quick to assume the two are through for good. As we know, this wouldn’t be the first time they’ve gone their separate ways.

Aniston recently opened up about love and romance to the U.K. magazine You. “Who ever said that every relationship has to last forever? That’s hoping too much,” said Aniston, who turned 40 exactly a month ago. “I think every relationship is a world unto itself.”

As for finding the perfect partner, she said, “I don’t have one and I don’t think it exists.”

Aniston and Mayer went public for the first time at the Oscars at the end of last month. Backstage at the Kodak Theatre, Aniston told Gayle King, who was interviewing them for her pal Oprah’s show, that she was “very happy.” Later in the night, they strolled arm in arm into the Vanity Fair postshow party at the Sunset Tower Hotel.

Most recently, Aniston was spotted on Monday at the same hotel grabbing a bite to eat at the Terrace restaurant. She’ll be jetting to New York City in the spring to shoot The Baster, in which she stars opposite Jason Bateman as an unmarried 40-year-old who decides to have a baby with her best friend.

Mayer, meanwhile, has been in the studio working on a new album.

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No wonder Jennifer Aniston received so much affection from John Mayer on Oscar night.

It turns out that while the singer was happy to provide “moral support” to his girl at the Academy Awards, he was also “very, very nervous” about attending.

“It’s not my world, the Oscar thing,” Mayer told Ryan Seacrest on his KIIS-FM show Wednesday. “But [Jen] was so sweet to me that night, because you can go from a Grammy winner to a water boy when you walk into the Kodak Theatre on Oscar night.” He added, “While it was really, really fun, the whole thing is very odd to me.”

“I basically stepped into the picture frame of Hollywood,” he explained. “And you have to really be with someone you know has your back in that situation, and she did, and it was really great.”

As for why the normally low-key couple chose such a high-profile event to go so public with their relationship, John told Ryan, “At some point, you feeel comfortable and say this is the choice I want to make. I think a year is a pretty good period of time with which to say, yeah, let’s go have a really good time at the Oscars.”

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Jennifer Aniston and John Mayer celebrated Valentine’s Day with a trip to the Bahamas.

The vacation was a present from Mayer, x17online.com reports.

The two left aboard a private jet from Los Angeles late last Thursday night — a day after Aniston’s 40th birthday — and arrived on the island of Eleuthera the next morning, according to x17.

They stayed in a gated, luxurious home on the north of the island – where Mariah Carey and Nick Cannon wed last year.

The two mostly spent their time indoors, the site claims.

The trip was short: Both took off Monday in separate private jets from the island’s main airport.

They shared a passionate kiss and hug as they prepared to part ways.

Says an x17 photographer: “Jen looked really upset to be leaving John.”

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Which he wrote for ex Jennifer Love Hewitt, of course.

“Happy Birthday” isn’t the only tune Jennifer Aniston will getting for her Feb. 11 birthday.

John Mayer has prepared his own serenade to help his girlfriend celebrate the big 4-0.

“He did write a special song just for her for her birthday,” a source tells PEOPLE of the Grammy winner. No word yet on his performance!

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