Pretty good interview with Charlize Theron alert!
Unlike most fluffy interviews that kind of say nothing and cater to the star’s latest project, this WSJ interview was funny, interesting and left Charlize looking real and vulnerable…which is, a nice change. The one caveat is that I donÃ¢â¬â¢t think sheÃ¢â¬â¢s being completely honest when she talks about Sean Penn, but probs because they’re going to promote their movie together in just a few months, and that could get awkward. Here are the highlights of the interview (note that Charlize can’t say ANYTHING nice about Tom Hardy):
Demanding equal pay to Chris Hemsworth on The Huntsman: Ã¢â¬ÅLook, when I saw that Jennifer Lawrence made what she made in comparison to Bradley Cooper, I was definitely shockedÃ¢â¬Â¦ The way people have been writing about it, it sounds like the Sony hack was what motivated me. My feeling would have still been, If weÃ¢â¬â¢re going to do it again, shouldnÃ¢â¬â¢t we start on equal footing? Because, trust me, we werenÃ¢â¬â¢t on equal footing there.Ã¢â¬Â
Clashing with Tom Hardy during Mad Max: Ã¢â¬ÅFrom what I hear, heÃ¢â¬â¢s not like that on every movieÃ¢â¬âI hear heÃ¢â¬â¢s had good experiences. Maybe the movie is what it is because we struggled so much with each other, and those characters had to struggle so much with each other. If we were chum-chum, maybe the movie would have been 10 times worse.Ã¢â¬Â
Growing up in South Africa: Ã¢â¬ÅI have a lot of things I should probably sort out in therapy about my relationship with my country. Because itÃ¢â¬â¢s affected me way more than IÃ¢â¬â¢ve ever acknowledged. And it was only when I got older that I started realizing that I had a lot of anger; there was a lot of unresolved stuffÃ¢â¬âapartheid, health care, AIDS, povertyÃ¢â¬âthat still very much affects meÃ¢â¬Â¦ It makes you realize that the circumstances of your formative years, it leaves a real scarÃ¢â¬âit marks you. ItÃ¢â¬â¢s the one thing that gets me really angry, really emotional. ItÃ¢â¬â¢s a lot of fÃ¢â¬âing suffering, and unnecessary suffering. And just people getting the sÃ¢â¬â kicked out of them for a very, very long time,Ã¢â¬Â Theron says, overcome by a rush of tears. She breathes deeply, trying to hold them back. Ã¢â¬ÅYeah. Sorry.Ã¢â¬Â
Wanting more children: Ã¢â¬ÅI always knew I wanted more kidsÃ¢â¬Â¦ I donÃ¢â¬â¢t know. But I always knew I wanted more than one. Always. When youÃ¢â¬â¢re with somebody and it comes to kids, you canÃ¢â¬â¢t bullsÃ¢â¬ât. And so I was always very honest with Sean that I wanted to have more kids. And he was very supportive.Ã¢â¬Â
Stories about Sean Penn adopting Jackson: Ã¢â¬ÅWe were very, very new in a relationship. The stories saying that Sean was going to adopt Jackson and all of that were not true. ItÃ¢â¬â¢s not something that happens in 18 months. You canÃ¢â¬â¢t do that to a child. So there was an understanding that I was a single mom with a very young boy who I had to put in a situation where he understood that Mommy dates but that he does not have a father, you know what I mean? You have to be very careful and very honest about that stuff. And Sean was great with all of that. And in my honesty about wanting to have more kids, there was an understanding that a relationship had to go somewhere before it was going to beÃ¢â¬âwhat you hope for, which ultimately did not happen. I couldnÃ¢â¬â¢t foresee that, but that stuff takes time, and I think itÃ¢â¬â¢s my responsibility as a mother to protect my child from that. And so we had a very clear understanding. He knew that I was thinking about filing for another adoption but that we werenÃ¢â¬â¢t filing together.Ã¢â¬Â She laughs. Ã¢â¬ÅMy publicistÃ¢â¬â¢s going to kill me; IÃ¢â¬â¢m already saying too much.Ã¢â¬Â
She claims she didnÃ¢â¬â¢t ghost Penn: Ã¢â¬ÅThere is this need to sensationalize things. When you leave a relationship there has to be some fÃ¢â¬âing crazy story or some crazy drama. And the fÃ¢â¬âing ghosting thing, like literally I still donÃ¢â¬â¢t even know what it is.Ã¢â¬Â She shrugs and shakes her head. Ã¢â¬ÅItÃ¢â¬â¢s just its own beast. We were in a relationship and then it didnÃ¢â¬â¢t work anymore. And we both decided to separate. ThatÃ¢â¬â¢s it.Ã¢â¬Â
Charlize reportedly cried at several points in this interview, when she was talking about her kids, and Penn and South Africa. And I dig it- it actually feels REAL. You can read the full WSJ. Magazine piece here. ENJOY!