Jada Pinkett Smith tries to clarify her open-marriage statements, by confusing us further.

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Earlier this month Jada Pinkett Smith discussed whether or not she and husband Will Smith were in an open marriage, with HuffPost Live. At the time she said, “I’ve always told Will, ‘You can do whatever you want as long as you can look at yourself in the mirror and be okay. Because at the end of the day, Will is his own man. I’m here as his partner, but he is his own man.”

After receiving backlash over her comments, the actress is “clarifying” those comments about her 16-year-marriage. Jada took to her Facebook page to release a letter about her relationship, calling it “a grown one” rather than an open one.

Open marriage?

Let me first say this, there are far more important things to talk about in regards to what is happening in the world than whether I have an open marriage or not. I am addressing this issue because a very important subject has been born from discussions about my statement that may be worthy of addressing.

The statement I made in regard to, “Will can do whatever he wants,” has illuminated the need to discuss the relationship between trust and love and how they co-exist. Continue  reading her statement after the jump!

Do we believe loving someone means owning them? Do we believe that ownership is the reason someone should “behave”? Do we believe that all the expectations, conditions, and underlying threats of “you better act right or else” keep one honest and true? Do we believe that we can have meaningful relationships with people who have not defined nor live by the integrity of his or her higher self? What of unconditional love? Or does love look like, feel like, and operate as enslavement? Do we believe that the more control we put on someone the safer we are? What of TRUST and LOVE?

Should we be married to individuals who can not be responsible for themselves and their families within their freedom? Should we be in relationships with individuals who we can not entrust to their own values, integrity, and LOVE…for us???

Here is how I will change my statement…Will and I BOTH can do WHATEVER we want, because we TRUST each other to do so. This does NOT mean we have an open relationship…this means we have a GROWN one.

Siempre,

J

What do you think? Did she clear anything up? Do you feel convinced – either way?

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Tuesday, April 16th, 2013 at 9:09am
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April 22nd, 2013 at 6:48 pm

She’s deflecting, by focusing on the image of a controlling partner saying “I own you, follow the rules.”
In reality, he’s supposed to WANT only her, and she shouldn’t have to say anything either way. If he wants a bunch of other people, then I don’t see how to sugar-coat that and say it’s a “grown” relationship. It’s just sad.
















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