Singer Fergie is gracing the cover of Blender magazine for January and she opens up about her relationship with actor Josh Duhamel. Fergie and the actor have been dating since 2004 and asked when we can expect to see a wedding or engagement she says,

“We’re practically married, anyway,” she says. “I’m madly in love with him. He understands how to treat a woman and give me respect.”

Fergie, the magazine’s 2007 Woman of the Year, did have a big 2007 – but she’s also suffered her share of indignities.

For instance, there was that moment she wet her pants onstage – a mishap captured in a photo that was spread across the Web.

“I was late, so I didn’t go to the restroom before I went onstage,” Fergie, 32, explains.

“It was horrible,” she adds. “But, whatever. It happened.”

Fergie, who won American Music and MTV Music awards in 2007, takes the same attitude with people knowing about her past drug abuse.

“It’s like there’s one or two things the public knows about every famous person,” Fergie says. “With me, everyone knows I wet my pants onstage and had a crystal-meth addiction. That sucks. You have to laugh.”