Naya Rivera is not my favorite, but I do think she’s sharing an important message (and uh, making some money off of it, too).
Naya’s promoting her upcoming memoir Sorry Not Sorry (arguably the dumbest, most basic title of a book I’ve ever heard) fairly hard, as the book goes on sale Sept. 13. But she’s using a lot of dirt to get book sales off the ground, including talking about her “maturity,” anorexia and yes…an abortion she had while on the show. Heavy. Hear are some excerpts:
“By the time I was a sophomore, I started feeling that what had begun as a game had maybe gone too far. I just avoided food at all costs,” she writes in Sorry Not Sorry of coping with her parents splitting and reuniting at the same time her acting career was stalling. “If my mom had packed a lunch for me, I’d either trash it or find some excuse to give it away.”
Rivera says she didn’t really realize how serious her eating disorder was until she decided to write about it in her memoir.
“I was so young and it just seemed to be the norm. Everyone was going through similar stuff,” she tells PEOPLE. “I had no way of knowing if I was going through it worse. I was juggling my feelings and it makes me sad that there are girls still going through that 15 years after I went through it.”
And then, her abortion after she got pregnant with actor Ryan Dorsey‘s child in late 2010, which happened just weeks after breaking up with him to focus on her career:
Rivera says she did not reveal the pregnancy to Dorsey, whom she wed in 2014 and is now the father of her 11-month-old son. Instead, she made the call to put her career first and terminated the pregnancy during her one day off from filming an episode of Glee.
“It was very scary to open up about everything,” says Rivera. “It’s not something a lot of people talk about, but I think they should. I know some people might read it and say, ‘What the Hell?’ But I hope someone out there gets something out of it.”
One person she hopes gets something out of her memoir is her son, Josey.
“I hope Josey will read it one day,” she says of the book. “I hope it gives him a better perspective on the issues women face.”
What do you think of her experience. And, would you read the book? WEIGH IN BELOW!