DMX opens up to Dr. Drew about beating his children.

The famous rapper sits down with Dr. Drew and talks about how he was physically abused as a child by his mother. He goes on to describe how he disciplines his 10 children…
Dr. Drew - “..in your book, I guess you wrote about some abuse…”
DMX - “I think back then everybody got beatings. To a certain extent it made me a better person. Although some were a little extreme.”
Dr. Drew – “How bad did it get?”
DMX – “It got pretty bad…there was plenty of days I couldn’t sit down at school. She used to have these three extension chords that she braided together. Sometimes we would get it with that. THAT was rough!”
Dr. Drew – “Do you have kids?”
DMX - “yep…10.”
Dr. Drew - “Are you involved in everybody’s lives?”
DMX - “Yes I am. Most of them have gotten beatings.”
Dr. Drew – “You beat your kids?”
DMX - “You don’t really have to beat them. That one time…smack them on the a__ with a belt a couple of times and they’ll get the point. It was not continual beating. Anybody you’ve got to beat over and over again, evidently it’s not working.”
Dr. Drew - “More like spanking?”
DMX - “…you give them a spanking that one time. After you explain to them not to do it…”
Dr. Drew – “But with your mom it got out of control?”
DMX – “Yeah. That’s why I talk to my kids first. I sit them down and explain to them what they did wrong. If I see that they are genuinely remorseful about the situation, then I’ll let it go.”
I don’t know how you were raised, but I was raised in a very religious home, and my parents were firm believers in the whole “spare the rod, spoil the child” style of parenting. I’m not saying I was beat, but I was definitely spanked. With a belt, a spatula, hands. I don’t think that what my parents did was wrong, because it worked! I actually feared getting into trouble! I think our kids should fear us to a certain extent. If we’re all equals – then who calls the shots?
On the other hand, I don’t “spank” my kids. I have never taken a belt to them (I did use a spoon to swat them a couple times when they were younger). When they were toddlers I swatted – but not really spanked. It just never felt right – or natural to me. I know first hand – that spankings don’t always work. If you have a strong-willed child, then I believe spanking will only make things worse. I think there has to be a better way to discipline a child than taking a belt to their little butts.
What’s your take? Are you a spanker? A non-spanker? Why?




















