An out of control Mel Gibson demands sex from his girlfriend and tells her he will burn down the house afterwards in one of the most bizarre and outrageous segments of audio obtained exclusively by RadarOnline.com.

Raging and panting, Gibson tears into then-girlfriend Oksana Grigorieva, berating her for apparently falling asleep the night before without giving him sex.

And it isn’t long until he threatens her with physical violence, telling her he’ll burn down the house, but first she WILL give him oral sex.

It’s a twisted combination of misogynistic emotional violence and rage combined with a dark threat of physical harm as Gibson rages that Oksana fell asleep before they could go into the Jacuzzi together and have sex.

Gibson screams: “I deserve to be blown first! Before the f*cking Jacuzzi! Ok, I’ll burn the goddamn house up, but blow me first! How dare you!??!”

The Braveheart star heaps emotional abuse on the mother of his eight-month-old daughter Lucia and grows increasingly out of control, while at times struggling to catch his breath.

At one point he screams at Oksana: “I should’ve woken you up and said f*cking blow me bitch! I should’ve f*ckin’ woken you up and said blow me! You would’ve liked that better, yeah? But you need the goddamn sleep!”

Oksana protests that she waited for him the night, before but fell asleep, and that sends Mel into a new rage.

“Waited and waited,” Mel bellows. “What, two and a half f*cking minutes!? You’re f*cking snoring. Don’t you dare.”

Mel also admits during the conversation that he’s seeing a therapist and yells at Oksana: “You wanted the number of my therapist? Don’t you ever speak to him! Find your own goddamn therapist! Because you’ve got problems more than me!”

LISTEN TO THE TAPE HERE

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