Ryan Phillippe and Reese Witherspoon both respected each other by waiting until their divorce became final before announcing any new romances. Sources say that Ryan is upset by how much time their kids, Ava and Deacon, are spending with Reese’s man, Jake Gyllenhaal.

According to a family friend, the kids love Jake so much that when it’s time for Reese to hand them over to Ryan , little Deacon can’t stop talking about Jake. “It’s Jake did this, Jake brought mommy flowers and coffee, Jake says we should recycle,” the friend tells OK!

Sources say that Ryan called Reese and suggested that she stop letting Jake spend so much time with the kids and he wasn’t nice about it. Reese barely let him finish his sentence before she told him that what she does with her personal life is none of his business!

You go girl!

WENN