Even though the paparazzi follow his and Britney Spears‘ every move, Kevin Federline says it’s nothing unique and the only difference is the media attention.

Kevin Federline says, “People put it up on this pedestal when it’s really the same way that everybody else goes through their stuff, you know?”

“Even though everything is so publicized and everybody is looking at it, it’s normal for us,” he says. “I think the infatuation with the whole thing is that watching us go through things makes other people feel normal.”